Earlier this year, I wrote about recommitting to walking in 2025. I’m happy to announce (with a proud smile) that I’ve kept that promise. More than that, I didn’t let the fact that the year is already nearing its end discourage me from starting. Alongside the joy of keeping my word, however, comes the honesty […]
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One unassuming day—whose exact date has escaped my mind, though the month was unforgettably January 2020 (memorable because Singapore had just announced its first COVID-19 case)—taught me two lessons I’ll never forget: First, that we can entertain angels without knowing it. Second, that working toward becoming a good person who relates well with others is
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A few months ago, I read a devotional penned by a woman whose husband had been delivered from alcoholism. Unfortunately, he did not survive the endocarditis that afflicted him not long after. What stayed with me was her quiet observation: “Some things remain a mystery in this life.” I write following the heartbreaking news of
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After meeting a potential suitor, 30-year-old South African Olorato Mongale never returned home. Her life was needlessly cut short on Africa Day. A CCTV image shared on social media shows her leaving for the date in broad daylight. She had informed her friend and, as some noted, was “dressed decently.” These are safety precautions women
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Learning Without Limits Not quite in the academic sense, though that too, sometimes. I wasn’t anywhere near confident about my cooking abilities until my mid-20s. I often doubted whether I’d ever become a decent cook, especially after a proper (though not entirely warranted) lambasting from my high school Food and Nutrition teacher. Long story short:
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This past weekend, I followed a Facebook conversation between two women writers I admire. The discussion was sparked by International Women’s Day (IWD), observed annually on March 8. Interestingly, one woman shared her decision not to celebrate, citing recent painful experiences with other women. The other countered, saying she would commemorate the day, particularly in
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When my tech-savvy brother gave me a crash course in web development, one detail caught my attention—the “burger menu.” If you’ve ever accessed a website (especially on your phone), you’ve probably seen it: three horizontal lines stacked on top of each other, resembling—you guessed it—a burger. That got me thinking about how much of life
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The undeniable significance of names as a fundamental part of our identity truly struck me during a university lecture. My classmates and I eagerly answered a question about ourselves, skipping over the simplest detail—our names—until the lecturer pointed it out. Reflecting on that moment, I’ve come to understand why some individuals choose to legally change
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Seated among some unfamiliar older people—men in suit jackets and women with doeks covering their heads—I found myself in a sitting room stripped of its familiar arrangement. Gone were the sofas, the TV, the coffee table, and the Victorian-style ceramic figurines that once decorated the space. Taking their place was a pure white wooden casket,
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Years ago, I wrote—very matter-of-factly—on a placard meant to safeguard my snacks, that whoever dared to eat my stuff would be castrated. Caution was intended to deter my younger brothers. If you have younger siblings, you’ll understand, I hope. I did not know the meaning of the word. But the shock-horror-clutch-your-pearls expressions displayed on both
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